The way to see is: Leave everyone be.
If there was one rule to gaining sight it would be:
Leave everyone alone.
By nature man is social and seeks physical involvements with others, and by instinct seeks to survive and physically responds to physical attacks from others. Being a conscious creature, he also seeks mental involvements, and mentally responds to mental attacks. All of this makes up the normal collective life of common man.
The self-sustaining, diner/dinner network of life on this planet entails never ending physical entanglement between all creatures. The unique life that is man’s further entails endless mental entanglements with his own species.
The hungry must eat, and physically, every creature finds its needed food naturally provided, but men find no such automatic food source for their mental hunger. So while animals live by eating one another physically, minds, which have no physical existence, live by eating what one another’s minds produce – thoughts.
You eat another’s thoughts by responding to them, and for ordinary appetites, more nourishment is derived from rejecting them than agreeing with them. (Disagree – main course; agree – hors d’oeuvre.)
J.